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How Not to Love: Advice a Cameroonian Woman is Given in Point Form

Have you ever wondered why people find it so easy to tell women what to do and not do? Particularly as concerns their bodies, their emotions etc.? I wondered recently about the many rules we're given which restrict event the way we choose to do the simplest, most natural thing: love.  Here are a few rules passed on to me or 'sisters' I know. This list is far from exhaustive, so feel free to add more in the comments...  ***

1- Do not like him first, and even if you do, never show it. Die with that secret sister. The man should love you first. If not you're needy and God forbid he knows you're needy. He will use and abuse you. No one wants a needy woman.
2- Do not be the first to say "I love you" he should say it first. Those words have power You need to make sure he loves you before 'exposing yourself'.
3- Date the man who loves you more than you love him. Heck, you don't even need to like him . Your affection may grow after he's showered …